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How to Actually Keep a Resolution to Meditate
Jay Michaelson
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December 24, 2018
We’re predicting a strong January here at Ten Percent Happier. Like gyms across the country, apps like ours see a nice spike after New Years Day, as people make resolutions to eat better, work out more… and meditate more too.Of course, that will probably level off in February. Real life has a way of getting in the way of our best intentions and resolutions. There are ways, though, to increase your chances of sticking with that New Year’s Resolution to Meditate. Here are some tips.
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December
How to Actually Keep a Resolution to Meditate

Getting on the Right Thought Bus
Anushka Fernandopulle
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December 19, 2018
After college, I spent time in Sri Lanka doing intensive meditation practice at various Buddhist monasteries and centers. My family is originally from Sri Lanka, but I was born and raised in the US, so while I could speak conversationally, I was not good at reading. I could read slowly like a small child, but certainly not fluently.
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December
Getting on the Right Thought Bus

Actually Having a Happy Holiday
Jay Michaelson
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December 12, 2018
For many people, the good cheer and family time of the holiday season ease the burden of darkness. Yet for many others, the holiday season is the most difficult of the year, and the relentless major-key music and myths of family harmony only worsen the natural ebbs of December. Many people are at their loneliest and most despondent precisely when our culture acts as though everyone is warm, partnered, and together.
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December
Actually Having a Happy Holiday

How to Survive the Holidays
Oren Jay Sofer
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December 5, 2018
Spending time with family members over the holidays—the season of “good will to all” —can often be seriously challenging. Family gatherings can reveal a widening canyon of personal, political, and cultural differences, and table conversations can often halt in tense silence or devolve into explosive argument. Instead of gritting your teeth and drinking more eggnog, here are five tips to stay sane during the holiday season.
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December
How to Survive the Holidays

Quiet, Please
Jay Michaelson
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November 28, 2018
“Quiet, please,” is a phrase I say to myself in almost every meditation session.Those exact words, I mean, taken from the semi-famous phrase uttered by Wimbledon umpires to hush up an over-enthusiastic crowd. Even the tone helps: a little British, a little decorous. Not hostile. After all, British.
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November
Quiet, Please

Giving Thanks on Thanksgiving
Jay Michaelson
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November 21, 2018
But most of all, Thanksgiving is something that everyone can appreciate. Who among us couldn’t use a little more gratitude in our lives? A little less taking for granted; a little more stopping and smelling the roses. It’s a great holiday. And, of course, it’s intimately related to the art of waking up – to becoming more aware of what’s around us every day.
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November
Giving Thanks on Thanksgiving

Who is the "Witness"?
Jay Michaelson
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November 13, 2018
You may have noticed that experienced meditators sometimes speak in code. For example, “I’m sitting with a lot of anger right now” is meditation-ese for “I am extremely pissed off at you.” Or, “It’s interesting to watch all of these thoughts come and go” is meditator code for “I can’t freaking sit still for five seconds right now!”One term meditation nerds often use is the word “Witness.” Usually as a noun, though sometimes as a verb. “Rest in the witness,” many meditation teachers say. What does that mean?
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November
Who is the "Witness"?

Kitchen Cabinet Mindfulness
Diana Winston
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November 7, 2018
My ex-husband used to say I left the kitchen cabinets open all the time. I denied it and ignored him, which might explain why he’s now my ex-husband. But in recent years, in my new, multigenerational household in which I live with my nine-year-old daughter and my mother (now known as Grandma) —Grandma’s got my number.
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November
Kitchen Cabinet Mindfulness

This Election Day, Be a Mindful Voter
Jay Michaelson
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October 30, 2018
While for some of us this election is a no-brainer, many other people are legitimately on the fence between different candidates and choices. Once again, mindfulness is not separate from this decision. I might look inside (ahead of time, not in the voting booth!) and see what factors of mind are present when I consider each candidate. Hope? Fear? Mistrust? Am I looking too hard for moral purity, or not hard enough? Am I compromising too much, or too little?
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October
This Election Day, Be a Mindful Voter

Going Trick-or-Treating in Your Mind
Jay Michaelson
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October 24, 2018
For most adults, Halloween is kids’ stuff, more associated with warm family memories than actual terror. But Halloween does have darker roots. Imagine you’re an alien dropped in an American suburb on October 31. WTF is going on?
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October
Going Trick-or-Treating in Your Mind

Tech Sanity, Part Two: Mindful Speech Online
Jay Michaelson
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October 16, 2018
A recent profile of the founders of Facebook suggested that their optimism about the power of social media resembled a religious faith. When people around the world could connect with one another, this faith promised, we’d all be happier, freer, and more politically engaged.How’s that working out for you?
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October
Tech Sanity, Part Two: Mindful Speech Online

How to be a Good Enough Parent
Jess Morey
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October 10, 2018
Research has shown that securely attached people have high self-esteem; they are willing to take risks towards their goals; they seek out social connection and support and tend to have trusting, long-term relationships. These are all the things we want for our children (and ourselves, our partners, our friends).
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October
How to be a Good Enough Parent

How to Survive The News
Jay Michaelson
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October 2, 2018
If you follow the news, most weeks are stressful. But this last week was something else. Indeed, the spectacle of Brett Kavanaugh’s confirmation hearing was excruciating to watch, whatever side of the political fence you’re on.
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October
How to Survive The News

Are you a Zoë or a Zelda?
Jay Michaelson
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September 27, 2018
Let’s say that the point of meditation is to be happier – 10% happier, you might say. But what does that really mean?
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September
Are you a Zoë or a Zelda?

The Wisdom of Autumn
Jay Michaelson
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September 18, 2018
I have a funny relationship with fall. On the one hand, autumn -- which officially starts this week -- is my favorite season. On the other hand, autumn is depressing AF.
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September
The Wisdom of Autumn

You Can't Beat the Critic
Jay Michaelson
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September 13, 2018
Some funny things happen when you pay attention to the critic while you’re meditating. First, you’ll notice that s/he never shuts up. If your mind’s not on one of his favorite subjects – your career, your body, your family, your love life – he’ll happily talk about anything. How you’re meditating, for example (badly).
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September
You Can't Beat the Critic

Right Now, It's Like This
Jay Michaelson
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September 5, 2018
Every animal, down to the microscopic level, wants more of the good stuff and less of the bad. Poke a paramecium, and it recoils. Put it near some sugar, and it goes for it. (Note: I know nothing about paramecia. I’m making this up.) That is how life works.
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September
Right Now, It's Like This

Making Boredom Your Friend
Jay Michaelson
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August 28, 2018
Here’s the truth: meditation is often boring. And so is life, sometimes.Fortunately, boredom can actually become your friend, whether you’re meditating or just, you know, living your life, waiting in the dentist’s office, being bored.
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August
Making Boredom Your Friend

How To Get To Sleep Faster
Oren Jay Sofer
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August 23, 2018
“Sleep is the universal pleasure.” There’s nothing quite like a good night’s sleep. The opposite is also true: there’s nothing quite like trying to function without enough rest. Sleep is a necessity for our physiological and psychological well-being. The body and brain perform a range of important functions during different stages of sleep, from detoxification and repair to consolidating memory.
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August
How To Get To Sleep Faster

Catching Doubt Before It Catches You
Jay Michaelson
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August 14, 2018
As with any long-term habit – a diet, an exercise routine, working on that novel – meditation has its ups and downs. In fact, there’s often a familiar pattern: struggles but enthusiasm at first, followed by some “aha!” moments when you finally figure out what you’re doing, and, eventually, some plateaus and troughs along the way when you don’t seem to be making “progress,” whatever that is, and wonder again why you’re carving out time every day to sit and do nothing.
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August
Catching Doubt Before It Catches You

Summer Reading for Saner Minds
Jay Michaelson
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August 8, 2018
Recently we asked 10% Happier staff and teachers to share with us what’s been on their summer reading this year -- except, we said, no books about meditation specifically, just books that are about living a more sane life in general. Here’s a sampling:
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August
Summer Reading for Saner Minds

Tech Sanity, Part One: Mindful Phoning
Jay Michaelson
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August 1, 2018
Smartphones: they’re miracles… and monsters.We all know that our phones are increasingly indispensable, for staying in touch with family and friends to ordering pizza to, I don’t know, refinancing your mortgage. And yet we also all know how addictive they can be. (If you don’t know already, several studies have confirmed this.) Fortunately, there are several realistic, achievable ways to regain your tech-sanity and take back your life from your phone.
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August
Tech Sanity, Part One: Mindful Phoning

Mindfulness vs Meditation: What's the Difference Between Meditation and Mindfulness?
Jay Michaelson
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July 24, 2018
You may be confused: are meditation and mindfulness the same thing? If not, how are they different? Well, the good news – or maybe it’s bad news – is that you’re not alone. In fact, lots of people use the two words interchangeably, and mean different things by each one. Here, then, is our attempt to clear it up.
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July
Mindfulness vs Meditation: What's the Difference Between Meditation and Mindfulness?

How to Meditate In Summertime
Jay Michaelson
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July 19, 2018
Summer! The perfect time for barbecues, beaches, and books you don’t tell other people you’re reading. Not necessarily the perfect time to meditate.
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July
How to Meditate In Summertime